{"id":1398,"date":"2021-08-10T12:19:52","date_gmt":"2021-08-10T11:19:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kalarahebdo.net\/?p=1398"},"modified":"2021-08-10T12:19:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-10T11:19:52","slug":"quand-le-repas-de-noel-separe-un-couple","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kalarahebdo.net\/quand-le-repas-de-noel-separe-un-couple\/","title":{"rendered":"Quand le repas de no\u00ebl s\u00e9pare un couple"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Par Odette Melingui \u2013 <\/strong><a href=\"mailto:odettemelingui2@gmail.com\"><strong>odettemelingui2@gmail.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>V\u00eatue d\u2019un pantalon jeans bleu assorti d\u2019un pullover noir, Ravenne, 22ans, s\u2019est pr\u00e9sent\u00e9e devant le juge du Tribunal de premier degr\u00e9 (TPD) de Yaound\u00e9 le 28 juillet 2021 \u00e0 la demande d\u2019Eliot, son ex fianc\u00e9. Elle est venue pr\u00eater main forte au p\u00e8re de son fils, qui a saisi cette juridiction d\u2019une requ\u00eate en reconnaissance d\u2019enfant. D\u00e8s l\u2019appel du dossier, le tribunal a relev\u00e9 quelques irr\u00e9gularit\u00e9s dans le dossier de proc\u00e9dure soumis \u00e0 son appr\u00e9ciation. Notamment sur le nombre de t\u00e9moins pr\u00e9sents \u00e0 l\u2019audience et un document qui a suscit\u00e9 sa curiosit\u00e9. En effet, Eliot a fait compara\u00eetre deux t\u00e9moins au lieu de trois comme l\u2019avait demand\u00e9 le juge lors de la derni\u00e8re audience. En prenant connaissance du dossier, le tribunal a \u00e9galement constat\u00e9 la pr\u00e9sence d\u2019un test ADN. \u00abPourquoi avoir annex\u00e9 une expertise m\u00e9dicale dans ce dossier? c\u2019est rare de voir un tel document dans le cadre d\u2019une affaire de reconnaissance d\u2019enfant sauf si le tribunal en fait la demande\u00bb, a fait remarquer le juge.<\/p>\n<p>Pour \u00e9clairer le tribunal, Eliot est revenu sur la gen\u00e8se de son histoire d\u2019amour avec Ravenne. Le jeune couple, qui s\u2019est donn\u00e9 en spectacle en public, se sont rencontr\u00e9s en d\u00e9but d\u2019ann\u00e9e 2020. Ils sont tr\u00e8s vite tomb\u00e9s amoureux l\u2019un de l\u2019autre. La dame \u00e9tait \u00e9tudiante, tandis que son amant est un fonctionnaire. Six mois apr\u00e8s leur rencontre, Eliot a fait sa demande en mariage \u00e0 sa dulcin\u00e9e. Il est all\u00e9 voir les parents de cette derni\u00e8re pour mat\u00e9rialiser son intention de l\u2019\u00e9pouser. Les deux tourtereaux ont d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de s\u2019installer ensemble avant d\u2019officialiser leur relation. Seulement, le 25 d\u00e9cembre 2020, jour de No\u00ebl, au tour d\u2019une table bien garnie, le couple a mis fin \u00e0 leur idylle.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mariage annul\u00e9 <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Apr\u00e8s leur s\u00e9paration, Ravenne est all\u00e9e vivre chez ses parents. Un mois plus tard, elle a annonc\u00e9 \u00e0 son ex fianc\u00e9 qu\u2019elle attendait un enfant de lui. \u00ab<em>Quand elle a quitt\u00e9 ma maison, je ne savais pas qu\u2019elle \u00e9tait enceinte. La premi\u00e8re \u00e9chographie n\u2019a rien r\u00e9v\u00e9l\u00e9, c\u2019est la deuxi\u00e8me effectu\u00e9e en avril 2020, qui a certifi\u00e9 qu\u2019elle \u00e9tait enceinte. Au d\u00e9part, je n\u2019\u00e9tais pas convaincu d\u2019\u00eatre l\u2019auteur de sa grossesse. Pour assoir ma conviction, j\u2019ai fait recourt \u00e0 la science en effectuant un test ADN apr\u00e8s la naissance de l\u2019enfant<\/em>\u00bb, a-t-il confi\u00e9. Persuad\u00e9 d\u2019\u00eatre le p\u00e8re de l\u2019enfant, Eliot a dont saisi le TPD de Yaound\u00e9 pour reconnaitre son fils, n\u00e9 le 23 juillet 2020. Les d\u00e9lais devant l\u2019officier d\u2019\u00e9tat civil ayant \u00e9t\u00e9 d\u00e9pass\u00e9s, le tribunal reste le seul recours d\u2019Eliot pour revendiquer son droit de paternit\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Interrog\u00e9e, Ravenne a pour sa part expliqu\u00e9e au tribunal le climat qui a r\u00e9gn\u00e9 entre les deux familles apr\u00e8s la rupture de ses fian\u00e7ailles avec Eliot. Il y a eu une grosse incertitude qui a plan\u00e9 au d\u00e9part jusqu\u2019\u00e0 ce que la science confirme le lien de parent\u00e9 qui existe entre le p\u00e8re et l\u2019enfant dont la reconnaissance est sollicit\u00e9e. Elle d\u00e9clare qu\u2019\u00e0 l\u2019annonce de sa grossesse, son ex conjoint a rejet\u00e9 toutes responsabilit\u00e9s et a soup\u00e7onn\u00e9 quelqu\u2019un d\u2019autre comme \u00e9tant l\u2019auteur de la grossesse. \u00ab<em>Moi aussi je ne savais pas que j\u2019\u00e9tais enceinte quand nous nous s\u00e9par\u00e9s le 25 d\u00e9cembre. Durant la grossesse, il y a eu des conflits entre les deux familles C\u2019est sa m\u00e8re qui a effectu\u00e9 le test d\u2019ADN pour se rassurer<\/em>\u00bb, a-t-elle d\u00e9clar\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Chantage <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Pour convaincre le tribunal de ses all\u00e9gations, Eliot a fait comparaitre ses deux fr\u00e8res comme t\u00e9moins. Ces derniers ont corrobor\u00e9 \u00e0 quelques d\u00e9tails pr\u00e8s les d\u00e9clarations de leur a\u00een\u00e9. Ils ont ajout\u00e9 que leur famille a \u00e9t\u00e9 surprise lorsque Ravenne a annonc\u00e9 sa grossesse un mois apr\u00e8s l\u2019annulation de leur mariage. \u00ab<em>C\u2019\u00e9tait devenu un sujet de chantage pour la dame. On ne comprenait pas comment \u00e0 peine le mariage annul\u00e9, elle annonce qu\u2019elle est enceinte. Raison pour laquelle nous avons effectu\u00e9 un test ADN<\/em>\u00bb, a d\u00e9clar\u00e9 l\u2019un des fr\u00e8res d\u2019Eliot. Curieusement, Ravenne ne s\u2019est pas fait accompagn\u00e9e dans cette proc\u00e9dure. Elle explique qu\u2019elle a \u00e9t\u00e9 inform\u00e9e de la date d\u2019audience la veille, et que ses parents, qui ne s\u2019opposent pas \u00e0 la d\u00e9marche judiciaire d\u2019Eliot, sont n\u00e9anmoins au courant qu\u2019elle est venue soutenir son ex fianc\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Pour le tribunal, Eliot n\u2019est toujours pas convaincu d\u2019\u00eatre le p\u00e8re de l\u2019enfant qu\u2019il souhaite reconnaitre. Au d\u00e9part, soutient le juge, il n\u2019\u00e9tait pas s\u00fbr d\u2019\u00eatre le p\u00e8re. Il a fait confiance \u00e0 la m\u00e9decine pour assoir sa conviction. Jusqu\u2019\u00e0 ce que l\u2019enfant naisse, Eliot ne voulait pas assumer ses responsabilit\u00e9s. \u00ab<em>Pourquoi ne pas garder ce test ADN \u00e0 la maison comme secret de famille?<\/em>\u00bb, a interrog\u00e9 le juge avant d\u2019ajouter \u00ab<em>La pr\u00e9sence de ce document dans le dossier de proc\u00e9dure prouve que vous ne voulez pas dissimuler vos doutes au tribunal. M\u00eame jusqu\u2019\u00e0 pr\u00e9sent, vous n\u2019\u00eates pas convaincu d\u2019\u00eatre le p\u00e8re de cet enfant si non, vous ne nous auriez pas racont\u00e9 l\u2019histoire de cette grossesse<\/em>\u00bb, a conclu le tribunal avant de renvoyer l\u2019affaire au 28 ao\u00fbt 2021 pour enqu\u00eate et r\u00e9quisitions du minist\u00e8re public.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Par Odette Melingui \u2013 odettemelingui2@gmail.com V\u00eatue d\u2019un pantalon jeans bleu assorti d\u2019un pullover noir, Ravenne, 22ans, s\u2019est pr\u00e9sent\u00e9e devant le juge du Tribunal de premier degr\u00e9 (TPD) de Yaound\u00e9 le 28 juillet 2021 \u00e0 la demande d\u2019Eliot, son ex fianc\u00e9. 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